Confidence- belief in oneself. full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing:
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We have every confidence in their ability to succeed. Self-confidence does not necessarily imply 'self-belief' or a belief in one's ability to succeed. For instance, one may be inept at a particular sport or activity, but remain 'confident' in one's demeanour, simply because one does not place a great deal of emphasis on the outcome of the activity. The key element to self-confidence is, therefore, an acceptance of the myriad consequences of a particular situation, be they good or bad. When one does not dwell on negative consequences one can be more 'self-confident' because one is worrying far less about failure or (more accurately) the disapproval of others following potential failure. One is then more likely to focus on the actual situation which means that enjoyment and success in that situation is also more probable. If there is any 'self-belief' component it is simply a belief in one's ability to tolerate whatever outcome may arise; a certainty that one will cope irrespective of what happens. Belief in one's abilities to perform an activity comes through successful experience and may add to, or consolidate, a general sense of self-confidence.
When an individual has a generally nonchalant attitude toward life they can also appear very self-confident when this is not necessarily the case. Instead it is likely that the individual has a poor coping style and does not realistically evaluate situational consequences; and usually the feelings of others. For this reason they may also appear arrogant because they may demonstrate an air of superiority and a lack of concern towards the welfare of others as they evaluate consequences and the feelings of others to be insignificant rather than acceptable. The more marked this attitude is the greater is the likelihood of psychopathology.
Self-Confident
Doing what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it.
Being willing to take risks and go the extra mile to achieve better things.
Admitting your mistakes, and learning from them.
Waiting for others to congratulate you on your accomplishments.
Accepting compliments graciously. “Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I’m pleased you recognize my efforts.”
Low Self-Confidence
Governing your behavior based on what other people think.
Staying in your comfort zone, fearing failure and so avoid taking risks.
Working hard to cover up mistakes and hoping that you can fix the problem before anyone notices.
Extolling your own virtues as often as possible to as many people as possible.
Dismissing compliments offhandedly. “Oh that prospectus was nothing really, anyone could have done it.”
